Happy Father’s Day…Rest-In-Peace Dad
My #father was one of my greatest and most important #rolemodels and #investors. He believed in me and sacrificed for my growth and upbringing so that today I can honor his memory by writing an academic textbook on #Neoliberalism #globalization #Incomeinequality #Poverty And #Resistance. He wanted me to become an #economist and or a #theologian and or an #architect as he was sort of a building engineer and ran his own construction company as an Independent Contractor for major government agencies and private firms. He helped with building the Jamaica National Stadium and several major projects. He was great at his job. He was jack of all trades and even built a car in the 80’s, built our beautiful home in the hills, built and started several churches, and ran an animal and vegetable farm and built some unique furnishing from scratch. However he made many mistakes as a dad and had some detractors that may question his character, but aren’t we all smeared. He was firm, hard, rough and a disciplinarian and spared no time to administer corporal punishments which was met with much fear and trembling by me and my 5 siblings. Yet he was determined to fight and struggle to ensure that we grew up to be the best or something like that. He was not very educated at first as he was only given an education up to the 9th grade as that was what was only required for black Jamaican men at the time. And he couldn’t read and write very well at first and as a boy I had to go on business dealings with him to help with completing business contracts or maybe to his office to help with writing a sermon in his later years when he completed pastoral training and became a pastor. I was at times angered by him and felt hatred towards him as he was tough and seemed insensitive at times. But as a parent he gave what he knew and he knew very little about developmental psychology. I understood that the limits of ones #parenting comes from the limits of one’s knowledge, exposure, education, critical thinking and so on. He died in 2011 but not before he had a moment years ago where he apologized to me where he taught he may have erred as a #parent. In the end, I forgave him and loved him I will never forget him. Thank you dad and happy Father’s Day to all #dads who stayed and struggled and fight to provide for their children. I give you this gift book #dad and Rest In Peace! #happyfathersday
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